A mother reads to her children at the Pasteur Kindergarten in District 3, Ho Chi Minh City. Adults, especially parents and teachers, often overlook the impacts of their own behavior on children.
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Google nu sinh (schoolgirls).
If you are expecting to come across charming, naïve schoolgirly stuff, you are in for a big surprise.
The websites that the search engine throws up are full of articles, images and video clips steeped in sex and violence.                                             Â
The clips are posted and spread online so frequently that they seem to have become the stuff of daily life for today’s youth.
Adults are rightly worried about the increasing appearance of lewd and violent material despite several warnings from experts, conferences and similar gathering.
However, amidst all their hand wringing, have adults ever thought about their own role in creating this situation? About correcting themselves first before asking their children to behave better?
Psychologists and other experts have said that students’ behavior is being partly influenced by that of people around them, especially parents and teachers.
Nguyen Bac Dung, headmaster of the Tran Dai Nghia High School for the Gifted in HCMC, says young people, including teenagers, are sensitive to their surrounding environment, and that it is incumbent on adults to behave properly. If they fail to do so, the youth will be affected directly and this will only exacerbate the influence that illicit books and films have on them, he said.
Recently, a new Facebook page that seeks to set up a “Club of people who like to speak ill of their teachers” has been drawing increasing participation of student netizens who are using the space to express their disappointment with academic mentors, to badmouth and curse them.
On many teenagers’ blogs, anger against and disappointment with parents is the topic of numerous entries.
It is easy, as some people do, to point to such behavior as evidence of decadence among the youth, the lack of respect for and gratitude to teachers and parents. It is perhaps more prudent to see this as evidence of adults having failed children – teachers not understanding and responding to real needs of their wards; and parents who fail to instill trust, confidence and security in their children.
A wise man once said it is always good to remember that when you point your finger at someone else, three others are pointing at you.Â
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